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There is no functional difference. They're synonymous terms. When you are planning a "burial at sea," "ash scattering at sea," or "sea burial," you're planning the same event. At Dignified Burials at Sea, we provide professional ceremonies for scattering cremated remains in the Pacific Ocean off the coast of Los Angeles, departing from Marina del Rey.
To complete an Ash Scattering At Sea, the state of California requires a VS-9 permit (Permit for Disposition of Human Remains) acquired from the facility that performs the cremation, or the mortuary you have made the arrangements with if the cremation was done in California. This permit should cost only $12 and is obtainable in a matter of days from the time of your request. In the event the cremation was done outside of California or even outside the United States, we will obtain the permit for you at a cost of $90.00. All we need is an original death certificate, to facilitate this. The permit should accompany the cremated remains when brought to one of our vessels. We are licensed by the State of California as a Cremated Remains Disposer (License #1036), and we file this permit with the Los Angeles County Health Department and the State of California after the scattering.
Federal EPA regulations also require that ash scatterings occur at least 3 nautical miles offshore, and anything that goes in the ocean must be biodegradable.
We travel 3 nautical miles offshore, as required by federal EPA regulations. We typically use a location three miles straight off the Santa Monica Pier. This location is recognizable, intimate and memorable.The Santa Monica Pier is recognizable worldwide from television and movies. The journey takes approximately 45 minutes each way from Marina del Rey.
Please bring the cremated remains in whatever container the funeral home or cremation facility provided them in. You do not need to purchase a biodegradable urn, and we suggest not using a biodegradable urn. The family brings the flowers of their choice, (and enough so we can use at least a half dozen to make the basket look beautiful, and enough for each family member to throw one or more flowers on the surface of the ocean after the scattering).
We provide everything else: the basket for the scattering, food and beverage service throughout your time aboard, and we file all required permits. You're welcome to bring photos, music playlists, digital slide-show via Bluetooth, or any items that help you celebrate your loved one's life.
While funeral homes often sell biodegradable urns, these urns very seldom act the way they're supposed to. If they're designed to float for five minutes then sink, they might not sink at all. Or they might sink immediately when they should float.
We prefer you bring the remains in the original container from the cremation facility, and we'll transfer them into our basket with flowers, ( provided by the family) for a beautiful presentation.
You'll board T(https://www.dignifiedburialsatsea.com/view-duchess)he Duchess (https://www.dignifiedburialsatsea.com/view-duchess)or T(https://www.dignifiedburialsatsea.com/view-legend)he Legend (https://www.dignifiedburialsatsea.com/view-legend)at Marina del Rey, where our crew will meet you. After a safety presentation, we'll depart for the 45-minute journey to the scattering location.
During transit, you'll be served food and beverages while our staff prepares the cremated remains in the flower basket. At the location, our captain positions the vessel and keeps it steady for your comfort. You'll have time to share stories, say prayers, and speak as much as time allows.
Our captains can help get things started or offer prayers from any denomination. We have prayer books for every faith. When your family is ready, we lower the basket to the ocean's surface. A line is then pulled that is attached to the bottom to tip the contents onto the water when the moment feels right. You can participate as much or as little as you wish.
After the scattering, time allowing, you may throw additional flowers on the ocean surface and spend a few more moments with your loved one before returning to the harbor.
Yes. Our captains have prayer books for every denomination and are happy to speak. Quite often, our captain will say a few words to help the family get started, especially for families who feel bashful or shy. However, families typically do most all of the speaking. Our captains are capable and willing to help however you need, but the ceremony is yours to lead.
Absolutely. On bothThe Duchess (https://www.dignifiedburialsatsea.com/view-duchess)andThe Legend,(https://www.dignifiedburialsatsea.com/view-legend) you can plug in or Bluetooth your playlist, or you can stream music using our wifi.
You can request whatever genre of music you like.
All the time. Seals, Sea lions, Pelicans and sea birds are always present. Dolphin appear a great deal of the time, and the occasional whale is certainly possible in Santa Monica Bay during ceremonies. These encounters add a profound sense of connection to nature during your memorial.
We suggest morning ceremonies to ensure calmer ocean conditions. However, we definitely do afternoon and sunset ceremonies as well if that's what you prefer. We'll guide you on the best timing for your date.
Wear whatever you're comfortable in. Nobody is going to get wet, and nobody will get ashes blown in their face. We do provide guidance on footwear. We don't recommend women wear high heels or spike heels for safety reasons. We suggest bringing a light jacket or sweater, as it can be cooler on the water.
Yes. Many families bring pictures to create memorial displays, and we have easels on board for this purpose. OnThe Legend,(https://www.dignifiedburialsatsea.com/view-legend) you can also display photo slideshows on our flat-panel screen in the salon by connecting via Bluetooth.
OnThe Legend,(https://www.dignifiedburialsatsea.com/view-legend) there's room for live entertainment. We've had families bring Mariachi bands, Dixieland jazz bands, and Bagpipers. You would need to arrange the entertainment, and they would board the vessel with your group, and be part of your passenger count.
Yes, we will arrange a white dove release where the doves are released over the water and return safely to their handlers. We don't endanger any nature. The doves return to their cages. This can be a beautiful addition to your ceremony.
The Legend carries up to 41 guests, while The Duchess a maximum of 6 guests, all based on Coast Guard Regulations. The Legend is the only motor yacht in the Marina del Rey Harbor that can legally leave the harbor with more than 12 passengers, and there are only a few that can legally carry more than 6.
We operate Professional, Captained, Time/Voyage Charters. You hire us, and we are responsible for everything relative to chartering a vessel.
Some companies operate "bareboat charters" (in an effort to carry more passengers than they are legally allowed), where the charterer (you) becomes responsible for the vessel, crew, fuel, insurance, maintenance, repairs, and any liability.
We hold all proper licensing and certifications:
We are licensed by the State of California as Cremated Remains Disposer. We have Water Taxi Operator and Water Taxi licenses (which are heavily regulated by the LA County Board of Supervisors), and The Legend is inspected annually by the US Coast Guard for more than 1,000 different regulation points.
Marina del Rey is the heart of Santa Monica Bay, which runs from the Palos Verdes Peninsula to Point Dume (about 19 to 20 miles). We serve all of Los Angeles including Santa Monica, Venice, Malibu, Hollywood, Beverly Hills, Playa del Rey, Playa Vista, Redondo Beach, Manhattan Beach, El Segundo, and surrounding communities. Marina del Rey is the harbor that serves the entire Los Angeles area.
We offer unwitnessed ash scattering services for $175. These are carried out with the same dignity, respect, care, and compassion as when families are present. You'll receive a beautiful card signed by the Captain with your loved one's name, exact GPS coordinates, and the date and time of the scattering. We file all appropriate paperwork and send you copies.
View our complete pricing.(https://www.dignifiedburialsatsea.com/pricing) The Duchess is $990.00, ( tax included) for up to 6 guests, and The Legend ranges from $1,650.00 to $6,380.00, (tax included) for groups of 7 to 41 guests. Unwitnessed scatterings are $175.
Yes. Both vessels have the exact GPS coordinates memorialized in their navigation system. We can bring you back to that special location formemorial anniversary events (https://www.dignifiedburialsatsea.com/memorialeventsuggestions)or celebration of life gatherings.
Absolutely. Yes—displaying photos and playing video slideshows during a burial at sea ceremony are not only allowed, but encouraged. They are a wonderful and meaningful way to honor and celebrate the life of your loved one while surrounded by the peace and beauty of the ocean.
We provide a flat-panel TV onboard, ( Legend Only ), for photo or video slideshows, as well as easels for framed pictures or printed photo displays. These personal touches help create a warm, reflective atmosphere and allow family and friends to share memories together during the service.
• The deposit is 1/2 of the total amount owed and does not include gratuity.
• A booking invoice will be sent to your e-mail upon request for a booking.
• A 50% deposit/payment is required to secure your booking.
• This is paid securely online through the booking email you receive with a credit or debit card.
• The balance due is paid onboard by credit card, debit card, or cash.
• A gratuity may be added to your final payment, paid onboard.Cards are not held on file, so it is imperative a card is brought onboard.
• Sunglasses and a hat or visor is always recommended.
• Sunscreen is not provided, so please bring your own. A cream style is preferred as oils and sprays are difficult to work with on a vessel. Sprays will not be allowed.
• Birthday Cakes, or Cupcakes are certainly welcome for occasions. We ask that you choose light colors for obvious reasons.
• Any other food items must be approved in advance and some items may require a cleaning fee.
• Anything brought onboard must be removed by the passengers at the end of their charter.
• Absolutely no large ice chests may be brought onboard for any reason.
• Some vessels provide White Wine and beer. You are always welcome to bring your preferences onboard with the exception of Red Wine, as that is not allowed on any vessel.
• Any liquor is allowed as well, and some vessels have the necessary mixers, lemons, limes, etc. (Please check on your specific vessel)
• Any guest that appears inebriated or seems to be over-indulging will be asked to slow down for their safety. The crew will deny service in the event a passenger is over-intoxicated.
• Vapes, pens, etc. are allowed in designated smoking areas only and only non-Cannabis products allowed
• Cigarette smoking is allowed in designated smoking areas only. Any damage done as a result of will be the responsibility of the guest
• Cigars are not allowed without prior approval. If approved, any damage done as a result of will be the responsibility of the guest.
• Marijuana, regardless of being legal in the State of California is not allowed as it is not recognized by the Federal Government as legal. The Federal Government, administered by the U.S. Coast Guard governs the oceans.
• A pre-departure safety presentation will be provided by the Captain or First officer at the start of every voyage.
• Our vessels are held to the highest standard of safety by The U.S. Coast Guard and carry all required safety items inlcuding, PFD's, life rings, horns, whistles, beacons, etc. IBA'S and life floats are equipped on vessels that carry greater than 6 passengers.
• Each vessel is equipped with Personal Flotation Devices adequate for the number of passengers and crew allowed as well all sizes including children and infants.
• Many people may be affected by motion, and even on a very calm day, vessels will move with the ocean.
• For those that are affected, we suggest taking the over the counter, Bonine or Dramamine at least 45 minutes prior to the start of your voyage.
• Bonine will be available on all vessels for our passengers, as well as civilized " motion affected bags"
• High heels, spike heels, boots with hard soles are not allowed for various reasons. Any elevation of heels can affect stability of passengers and this needs to be considered when choosing your footwear. Spikes heels, high heels and hard sole boots or shoes can damage decking.
• Feel free to wear your choice of footwear to the vessel, and then be prepared to change into something more appropriate prior to boarding.
• Passengers may go barefoot if they choose.
• All vessels have weather exposed decks as well as weather protected decks. This will allow a passenger to be onboard in an area that provides comfort from the elements, or pleasure from the elements.
• A light jacket or sweater is always a good idea to have available.
• You may plug in any device that uses a USB to play throughout the entire vessel.
• You may stream music through our Free Wi-Fi using the platform of your choice
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